The Age of Empires is Back.


I stand with Ukraine as I always did with Palestine. Putin does not recognise Ukrainians as a separate people with the right to their own independent country. Netanyahu does not recognise Palestinians as a separate people with the right to their own independent country.
We are living in dangerous times.
Trump, Netanyahu and Putin are narcissistic, expansionist and imperialistic leaders wanting to return their states to a mythical past with a supposedly God-given right to consume their smaller neighbours.
We as an Irish people that suffered centuries of occupation and colonisation can empathise with the present day struggles of the Palestinians and Ukrainians. Their struggles are our struggles.
Beir bua!

 

Schools Days and School Nights!

We of the Insight Research Centre for Data Analytics at the University of Galway have been very busy since the beginning of term supporting the needs of schools in the area of science and particularly in web technologies. Since last Friday alone, we have worked with 8 schools providing:
Coding classes in Gaelscoil Mhic Amhlaigh; visits to our centre from St. Jarlath’s College (Tuam), Ballinrobe Community College (Mayo) and Galway Business School (Salthill) to experience Research Talks from our researchers, guided tours of the computer and communications museum, Python coding workshops and Virtual Reality sessions; Internet Safety talks in partnership with the Garda Síochána to the senior classes of Bushypark National School and Scoil Bhríde Shantalla; and finally Internet Safety talks in the evenings to the parents of Galway Educate Together Claregalway, Scoil Náisiúnta Bhaile Chláir na Gaillimhe and Scoil Náisiúnta na bhForbacha.

I would like then to publicly thank my Insight colleagues who this week volunteered their time and their ideas to upskilling and increasing the knowledge of our school communities whilst supporting the wonderful teachers who do so much to educate and prepare our young people for their current and future lives.
So a big Bualadh Bos(Irish = ‘A round of applause!’) to these volunteers, namely Abdul Wahid
, Al Waskow
, Atul Kr. Ojha, Bharathi Raja Chakravarthi, Duc-Duy Nguyen, Hassan Khan, Janak Kapuriya, Katarzyna Stasiewicz, Luke Porwol, Muhammad Asif Razzaq, Ph.D., Nitesh Bharot, Rory Ward and Shunmuga Priya

Terryland Forest Park 2000-2025: "Sowing Seeds for a Green Future"

We at the Tuatha volunteers extend a big thank you/Míle buíochas to the Connacht Tribune and Galway City Tribune newspapers for devoting two full pages in this week's county and city editions to the Terryland Forest Park.

The article wonderfully encapsulates the story of the park- from the local residents campaign in the mid 1990s that led to its inception; to the first mass community planting on March 12th 2000; to the recent array of fantastic enhancements such as eco-heritage trails, a giant 'fairy ring' structure, regenerative farming and the installation of monuments to the Mincéir and Farming communities; to the opportunities now in existence to make Galway City the Eco-Capital (a National Park City) of Ireland that would include the development of a network of parks and traditional Greenways using the almost forgotten 'boreens' (country lanes) that exist within and on the periphery of our urban boundaries; and finally the problems that need to be faced up to by City Hall to make this a reality such as protecting Terryland, Merlin and Barna municipal parks from encroachment by built development as well as putting in place a proper functioning regular litter management system for parks as well as a parks' ranger unit.
So for a good informative read on how to make our city a better place for people and biodiversity, and to support good local investigative journalism go buy a copy of this week's Tribune (digital or hard copy)!

St. Brigid's Day - a sign of the remarkable status of Women in early Celtic Ireland


Today is the second year that there is a public holiday in Ireland to celebrate a female. 
Though this year it falls on the third day of February, the holiday is associated with February 1st which is the first day of Spring in the Celtic calendar, the season of birth and re-birth that follows the cold barren months of Winter. In Ireland, it is known as Fhéile Bríde as it is dedicated to a female, St. Brigit (or Bridget, Brigid, Bride), the country's most famous native born saint. Children in schools across the country mark the occasion by making a distinctive traditional four armed cross woven out of reeds that is named after the saint. Her name also has a strong affinity with a Celtic goddess associated with fertility and symbolised by 'fire', the element that offered humankind protection from the natural deadly forces of winter.

Brigit is second only in the Irish saints' calendar to St. Patrick who was born in Roman Britain.
The fact that Brigit was female is quite significant as the early Celtic Church in Ireland was unique in contemporary Christian Europe in giving considerable recognition to the role of women. Irish society was not as patriarchal as their Roman, Greek or Germanic neighbours. According to the historian Dáibhí Ó Cróinín in his book 'Early Medieval Ireland', a woman could divorce her husband for a variety of reasons (including if he failed to satisfy her sexual needs!), could own and inherit property and was treated as an individual in her own right with inherent protections under Celtic law. Women fought on the battlefield as warriors until this was banned by the church.

Celtic female influence extended as far as Iceland....

Even outside Ireland, the influence of Irish women at this time (5-7th century) was felt- St. Ives in Cornwall is called after an Irish female saint (a.k.a. Eva or Aoife), St.Grimonia & St. Proba lived in France (Gaul) in the 4th century, St. Dardaloch in Pavia, Itay (c.300ad) and the nunnery in Austria made famous in the film and musical 'The Sound of Music' was probably founded by an Irish female missionary (Erintrude). In Iceland the hero of one of the great Icelandic Sagas is the Irish female slave Melkorka, a stong willed woman who refused to be coerced by humiliation, rape and brutality. In fact it has been noted by some that the status of women in Iceland (where I lived for a number of years), which was higher than in contemporary Scandinavian societies, possibly owed its origins to the impact exerted by the high number of Irish women living amongst the country's early Viking settlements- they were brought to the country as slaves and wives from the Viking towns of Ireland. It has been said that it was their influence that persuaded many of their pagan husbands to vote in favour of the country's adoption of Christianity at the famous 'Althingi' (parliament) of 1000AD.

This independent-minded spirit must have left a lasting legacy as Icelandic women were amongst the most successful in securing equal rights for women's during the course of the 20th century.

Female Celtic Warriors
Celtic mythology provides ample evidence of the power of women in pre-Christian Ireland. The country itself -Éire ('Ire(land)' in English)- is named after a goddess; the names of most of the great rivers with their life-giving waters are associated with nymphs, goddesses and female animals; the Celtic God of War (Morrigan)- the most masculine of activities- is female. Some of the most powerful Celtic rulers were women such as Queen Maeve and Queen Boadicea(Bó = Cow in Irish) 
The fiercest and most macho hero in Celtic mythology is 'Cuchulainn'. Yet he was actually totally female-dominated(!):
  • trained in martial arts and weaponry by Scathach
  • first defeated in battle by Aoife
  • protected by the War Goddess Morrigan
  • kept on the 'straight and narrow' (most of the time!) by his strong-willed wifeEmer
  • nursed back to health from near fatal battle wounds by his mistress Niamh
  • and killed by the army of Queen Maeve.
High Status of Brigit in Celtic Church & pagan associations 
Brigit was also a powerful Celtic goddess of fertility associated with the birth of animals and symbolised by fire. Hence her links with one of the four great pagan festivals of the seasons- the Spring Festival of 'Imbolc' which occurs in February and the time of 'lambing'.It is therefore quite possible that St. Brigit was originally a high priestess of the pagan goddess Brigit who converted along with her female followers to Christianity during the time of St. Patrick.


According to legend St. Brigit was the daughter of Dubhthach, an Irish chief, and one of his 'Picttish' (from modern Scotland) slaves. She was made a bishop by St. Mel (whom the actor Mel Gibson was named after) and founded one of the most famous Irish monasteries beside an Oak tree on the plains of Magh Liffe thereafter known as 'Cill Dara' or Kildare- 'the Church of the Oak Tree'.In the Celtic pagan religion, trees were considered sacred, none more so than oak trees which were prime locations for spiritual worship.The monastery also was the repository of a 'holy flame', another clue to its possible pagan origins as a temple of Druid priestesses in a sacred woodland. It also has striking similarities to the story of the 'Vestal Virgins' of Ancient Rome whose primary task was to maintain the sacred fire of Vesta, the goddess of the 'hearth'.Under Bridget's leadership as Abbess and bishop, Cill Dara became a great place of spiritual learning and of the arts/crafts particularly metal work and illumination. For centuries thereafter, each succeeding Abbess of Kildare took the name of 'Brigit' and was regarded as a person of immense stature thoughout Ireland with the monastery being second only to Armagh in its ecclesiastical importance.

Rape of Brigit & decline in the status of Women in Irish society 

But over time, the importance of women in society was reduced as Viking raids, wars and the growing influence of the patrician 'male only' Vatican took its toll. The death knell came in 1132 when it seems troops of the King of Leinster Dermot MacMurrough sacked the monastery, raped the abbess Brigit, carried her off and forcibly had her married to one of his followers. As is the case throughout the history of humanity, 'rape' is used as the ultimate weapon against female independence and the physical symbol of man's power over womankind. McMurrough is the same man who invited the British Normans to Ireland to aid him in his wars; they of course soon decided to conquer the country for themselves staying in the process for over 800 years

 

Lá Fhéile Bríde- the Offspring of the Fallen will Regenerate the Forest


On Lá Fhéile Bríde/St Brigid’s Day, Tuatha volunteers gathered on the banks of the River Corrib beside the ruins of the Terryland Castle, originally built in the 13th century by the Anglo-Norman invaders at a narrow point of the river to monitor water traffic and to act as part of the city's outer defenses against the native Gaelic Irish.

Today this area represents the start (western boundary) of the Terryland Forest Park Galway whose defenders and guardians are the Tuatha and the council parks staff.

This morning the Tuatha gave due recognition and respect to Lá Fhéile Bríde as the first day in the Celtic calendar of Spring, the season of rebirth.

In the photo, our volunteers hold saplings grown from the seeds of trees planted in the park 25 to 20 years ago by the people of Galway. These saplings, from our new in-park nursery, will be planted next month to replace trees that fell during last week's devastating Storm Éolwyn.

It is so beautiful to know that offspring of some of these trees will replace their fallen parents and help the diverse life of the forest continue on into the next 25 years.

 

The King of the Forest has fallen

Devastating news! 😢😢😢. Tuatha volunteer John Sinnott and myself are just back from reviewing the damage caused to the Terryland Forest Park by Storm Éowyn. Lots of trees damaged and uprooted as a result.

Worse news of all is what happened overnight in the ‘Oak Grove’ planted on March 12th 2000 to serve as the symbolic centrepiece of Ireland’s first and largest urban native community woodland. Last month volunteers joyously started to lay the foundations of a mystical and scientific giant Fairy Ring in a circle around this oak tree to serve as an eclectic forest Outdoor Classroom (photo) that was agreed with Galway City Council to be the location for the official 25th birthday celebrations of Terryland Forest Park.

We expected this tree to last many hundreds of years serving humanity and biodiversity throughout its long life.

Sadly early this morning, it was a victim of the storm of the century (photo).

I am heartbroken 😢

But now we as members of the forest park volunteer group have to be brave and assess what can be done.

Maybe we can use some of the wood of the most famous tree in the park to not only to be a home for biodiversity as 'deadwood', but also to make a series of wooden sculptures to be placed along a new heritage trail? We will be contacting the parks management of Galway City Council to review the situation and come up with a plan.


But sadly we know that in the years ahead such storms are going to be become more frequent as a result of the unstable weather caused by the mam-made global Climate Crisis.


We as volunteers, cognizant of health and safety procedures, will tomorrow be picking up litter blown into the park by the storm and clearing paths of fallen branches.

Creating a giant 'Fairy Ring' at Christmastime

 

Volunteers from the Tuatha and Cumann na bhFear came together just before Christmas to create a giant fairy ring in the centre of the sacred Oak Grove within Terryland Forest Park.
A circle of fungi is a beautiful natural phenomena in nature that is the surface representation of a network of small threads, called mycelium, that form part of what we now refer to as the Wood Wide Web, a mutually beneficial underground communications and resource-sharing system connecting the trees of a forest.
In mythology these mushroom circles were known as Fairy Rings where the 'little people' merrily danced in the woods under the moonlight.
William Butler Yeats mentions this in his poem The Stolen Child:
"...We foot it all the night,
Weaving olden dances
Mingling hands and mingling glances
Till the moon has taken flight..."
 
These giant toadstools were made from concrete by the brilliant Michael McDonnell, one of the finest of Galway craftsman. Under his supervision, Tuatha volunteers will make more of these beautiful sculptures next month that, when put in place in the forest and individually painted, will be used by school children to sit on in another exciting and fun Outdoor Classroom.
Oak Groves are associated as places of learning and ceremony during Celtic pagan and early Christianity. Our Oak Grove where the fairy ring is located comprises a circle of oak trees planted by volunteers in March 2000

Celebrating Diversity at Christmas in a Galway university research centre.

 

For 12 years I and my colleagues use the goodwill spirit of the festive Christmas season to organise an event that celebrates the cultures of the staff/students of the Data Science Institute at the University of Galway where their families and friends are invited.

This year we had exhibits populated with the images, cuisine, beverages(non-alcoholic) and traditional dress representing Africa, Australia, China, Germany, India, Ireland, Mexico, Spain, USA, Pakistan and Turkey.
 
In a time of increased incidents of military conflict, genocide, ethnic cleansing, racism, forced migration, economic disparity, biodiversity loss, and extreme weather incidents caused by global climate change, it is important that we highlight and celebrate the benign cultural attributes of the populations of the world. We should not fear differences but instead recognise that variety is after all the spice of life. Hence we should recognise that humanity can and does blossom by having multiple religions, dress, music, art, skin tone and societies. For life would be so boring if we all looked the same, acted the same, dressed the same, cooked the same food…
 
Furthermore, we not only had festive music and a jolly Santa Claus bearing gifts for the young (& not so young!) but also prizes for the best cheeses (at a special cheese stand), best cultural outfits and stand as well as a beautiful Chinese folk dance known as the ‘Dance of the Peacock’ performed by our colleague Huan Chen.

The annual Galway Science & Technology Festival Exhibition is tomorrow!

I'm just home from spending an enjoyable day helping the hardworking and visionary Galway Science & Technology Festival (GSTF) committee and dozens and dozens of volunteers get the University of Galway campus ready for tomorrow's Exhibition Day. With 20,000+ visitors, it represents the largest one day STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts & Maths) celebration in Ireland and opens a two week festival that this year has the theme of 'Regeneration'. Appropriately then the festival will finish on a high note on June 23rd with the planting of heritage orchards in fields within Terryland Forest Park comprising varieties of fruits that almost disappeared from the Irish landscape where it not for the great efforts of Irish Seed Savers Association.
As always, Sunday's interactive fair will involve all sectors from Galway city and county society including the corporate sector, indigenous companies, primary schools, secondary schools, science education centres such as Galway Atlantaquaria, university research institutes from both universities in Galway, art events such as drawing workshops hosted by artists Margaret Nolan and Richard Chapman, and the ever-present Origami stand workshops with Thomas Cuffe... The list goes on and on!
Galway is internationally renowned not just as a City of Arts but also as a City of Science. Now in its 27 year, the annual GSTF festival has played a key role in earning Galway this accolade.
2024 will represent my 23rd year as an active member of the organising team. Hopefully I will be around for a few more!
Photo shows my lovely wife Cepta with the Origami maestro Tom Cuffe at a previous GSTF Exhibition Day.

The World Deserves Better than Harris & Trump


Donald Trump is a narcissistic racist misogynist who has been convicted in a US court of sexual assault, has helped transform social media into a realm of hate, wants to undermine the United Nations and has openly declared war on the planet and all living things by dismissing the overwhelming scientific consensus on the Climate Crisis, calling it a ‘hoax’ invented by China. For him, the world and all of its species exists solely to serve and to be exploited for the benefit of the rich and powerful amongst the homo sapiens.

Kamala Harris is Vice President of a US administration that has given unhindered political, financial and military support to an Israeli government to allow it to conduct a policy of ethnic cleansing and genocide which has reduced Gaza to rubble, destroyed huge swathes of Lebanon, aided the racist colonial Zionist settlers to continue to confiscate Palestinian lands in the West Bank, left nearly 50,000 people mainly women and children dead, and forced over 3 million civilians to flee their homes and become refugees.
Having lived there for a while and visited many times, I love so much about the USA- its music, its arts, its grassroots environmentalism, its innovations, its technologies and lots more. But its people must know better. The world deserves better.
I cannot in all honesty understand how any one of good character can justify voting for either of these politicians.

Today I enjoyed Dancing with a Lovely & Happy Partner on a Virtual Reality dance floor!

This morning/afternoon, my brilliant friend Luke Porwol (right of photo) gave a training session to his colleagues who have volunteered to mentor workshops on Virtual Reality (VR) to schools visiting our Insight Research Ireland Centre for Data Analytics at the University of Galway as part of theGalway Science and Technology Festival.

Whilst I have always been a strong advocate of learning through real life experiences especially within the natural world through the Outdoor Classroom and field studies, nevertheless I have for years passionately believed that Virtual Reality will provide a new, exciting, engaging and immersive dimension to young people in multiple subjects across the Irish educational curriculum. For instance if you are studying Ancient Egypt in History class, wouldn't it be wonderful if you could travel back in time as an avatar into a VR world and experience the pyramids of Giza when they were being constructed over 4,600 years ago; or if you are studying the Human Body in Biology class wouldn't it be so beneficial if you could move around the veins, arteries and heart of the Circulatory System; or in Geography Class be able to paddle a canoe along the Amazonian River in VR and see the causes and impact of deforestation.
As part of the training session today I danced with a lovely avatar who brought so many of the senses alive (sight, sound and touch!). When I finally had to leave the VR dance hall and return to the real world, my dance partner looked so sad that I actually got a bit emotional! For It was really nice to meet someone (or something!) that actually appreciates my dance moves

Creating a 'Fairy Ring' in a sacred Oak Grove in the Heart of the Forest

On March 12th 2000, some of the 3,000+ volunteers, working under the auspices of Galway Corporation (now council) Parks department and its superintendent the recently appointed Stephen Walsh with a multi-sectoral committee, created a wonderful oak grove on the first day that Terryland Forest Park opened. Twenty oak saplings were planted in a circle surrounding a single oak sapling, giving recognition to the Celtic pagan druids and early Christians, especially Saint Brigid of Kildare (Cill Dara, Irish for 'church of oak') fame, who worshiped amongst nature and gave due respect to the largest of our native tree species. The ancient ones often knew more than modern society gives them credit for. For they understood the significance of trees and plants in maintaining life on the planet which science is helping us to rediscover in the last century or so.
Over the decades, we have held community family picnics, school classes and festivals in this wonderful circle of life.
Yesterday a small team of Tuatha volunteers working in the park laid the foundations for a circle of giant toadstools that will form a Fairy Ring to serve as an enchanting forest-themed Outdoor Classroom for the benefit of visiting schools and other groups.
A circle of fungi is a beautiful natural phenomena in nature that is the surface representation of a network of small threads, called mycelium, that form part of what we now refer to as the Wood Wide Web, a mutually beneficial underground communications and resource-sharing system connecting the trees of a forest.
In mythology these mushroom circles were known as Fairy Rings where the 'little people' merrily danced in the woods under the moonlight. WB Yeats mentions this in his poem The Stolen Child:
"...We foot it all the night, Weaving olden dances Mingling hands and mingling glances Till the moon has taken flight..."
The concrete toadstools were made by our good friend, the highly talented Michael McDonnell of Cumann na bhFear. Their installation and painting will be done over the next few weeks by the Tuatha volunteers supported by the Just 3 programme of the University of Galway as part of the Galway National Park City initiative.
The first phase of this exciting new creation will be readied later this month in time for the Galway Science and Technology Festival.
Finally, new volunteers are always welcome every Saturday to help us continue to develop the park as an Outdoor Classroom, a heritage hub and as a biodiversity sanctuary.
Rendezvous on Saturday is 10am at An Nead (Irish = The Nest) at the Sandy Road entrance to the Terryland Forest Park. Google map coordinates are
 https://maps.app.goo.gl/Gc334KY6JoBt6Fw96
 
 

The tradition of a Celtic Halloween continues at our home!

 Halloween at our home in 2016
 
The tradition of a Celtic Halloween continues at our home!
Even though our sons are now adults and have been for many years, with Shane living with his lovely wife Michelle in county Galway, nevertheless Cepta and myself continue to decorate the house annually with all the elements of a Celtic-themed Halloween.
For I think it is so important that we help, not only to keep alive cultural traditions, but primarily to put a smile on the faces of the young ghouls, witches and demons of our neighbourhood as they call house-to-house ‘trick or treating’.
For there is so much pain, suffering and death inflicted by mad statesmen controlling powerful militaries onto the civilian populations of Gaza, Lebanon, Ukraine, Myanmar, Sudan and elsewhere in the world today, that we have to take every opportunity to bring a little joy and happiness whenever we can.
ps I find it hilarious that my son Daíre dressed up as Trump on Halloween night in 2016 (see photo)!!
pps. I do much enjoy Halloween, Christmas, Easter… as I am still a kid at heart that has never really grown up! 😁

Help Create a new Wetland in the heart of Galway City

 

On Saturday next (Oct 5th) we need volunteers to help bring a whole new dimension to the multi-habitat Terryland Forest Park in the lead-up to its 25th birthday celebrations in 2025.

To complement the park’s native woodlands, native wildflower meadows, waterways, and karst limestone outcrops, we need as many volunteers as possible to help lay down the surface of a 1000 square metre pond as the first step in an ambitious new wetland project, by a partnership between the Tuatha volunteers and Galway City Parks department, that will over the coming year encompass a wet woodland and marshes as part of a major nature restoration project for Galway city. This work will be also include the installation of a viewing platform, a bridge over the nearby Terryland River and the creation of an adjacent wildlife sanctuary (free of human footfall).
 
 
Rendezvous
Time: 10am - 1pm
Location: ‘An Nead’ (Irish for ‘Nest’ & volunteer HQ), Terryland Forest Park entrance, Sandy Road, Galway City. Google Maps Link-
Requirements: Wear suitable clothing and boots for wet and outdoor conditions.
 
Volunteer Tasks
Volunteers tasks will include jumping up and down (to music!) on the recently excavated pond (thanks to Paula Kearney, Lisa Smyth and Kevin Nally of Galway City Council Parks Department) in order to compress the soil base as well as plant locally sourced flora on its raised banks. Last Saturday international students from the Just 3 initiative in the University of Galway were introduced to Galway as they began the pond-making process, by happily foot stomping to world music ranging from American hip-hop to Irish trad to Punjabi disco!
The photo shows some of the students jumping up and down on what looks like a sandy beach in Terryland Forest Park but is in actual fact the remains of ancient aquatic wildlife that lived in what was once a large lake or marine environment.
Restoring a lost Wetland
In the early 1840s, an ambitious plan to build a long dyke wall to increase the water flow into the city to power mills and distilleries in Galway city was carried out. The result was the Dyke Road and the gradual draining of wetlands that existed between Terryland Castle and Castlegar Castle which transformed over time into farm pasture. A large part of this area was zoned in the mid 1990s for a future forest park either side of the remnant of a much larger Corrib catchment, namely the Terryland River.
The work of volunteers next Saturday will help restore some of a once extensive wetland and bring back a population of aquatic flora and fauna into the community-driven publicly owned forest park managed by Galway City Council.

Making a Difference - SDG-themed Research at the Insight Centre for Data Analytics of the University of Galway.

 

I was very proud of my colleagues today at the Insight SFI Research Centre for Data Analytics, University of Galway as they presented their ground breaking research during the 'Data Science Institute Lightning Talks' event held as part of the university's SDG Week 2024. Their work is truly inspirational and benefits both people and the planet as we showed today how Insight research fulfills the majority of the United Nations 17 Sustainable Development Goals.

Topics included 'Unlocking Health Data for Smarter Decisions' by heike vornhagen; 'Converting Wastewater into Energy' by Saeed Alsamhi; 'Decarbonisation and digitalisation of Atlantic Ports' Umair ul Hassan; 'Intelligent Pavement Condition Rating System for Cycle routes and Greenways​' by Ihsan Ullah; 'Peatland Policy Portal for Ecosystem Restoration and Carbon Sequestration' by Fergus O'Donoghue ; 'Marine Planner Tool' by Carlos Tighe; and 'Monitoring & Improving Air Quality' by Eoin Jordan.

We were honoured to have present at this very well-attended event Brid Seoige, Head of Content at the University of Galway, Eugene Farrell from the Discipline of Geography at the University of Galway and Irish representative on the European Marine Board (marine science policy) Working Group on ‘Coastal Resilience’, and Michelle O'Dowd, Sustainability Officer at the University of Galway.

The University of Galway is the number one university in Ireland and in the top 50 in the world for Sustainable Development.

Insight is playing its part in helping to secure this key status for Galway and Ireland.

Finally, well done to Brian Wall for his excellent job at MC, Thomas Grigas for the technical support, Claire Browne for the logistics and Nitesh Bharot for taking this fine photo! 

 

Our Son’s Wedding

Two days ago, Cepta and myself were the proudest parents in the world as we witnessed our eldest son Shane marry the lovely Michelle Quinn in the picturesque Glassan Lakehouse on the shores of Lough Derg.
It was a day that we had long dreamed off and will always treasure, a gathering of the clan and of loyal friends to both Shane and Michelle, many of whom that they have known from their school days.
It was one of those all-too-rare occasions when we can invite brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and close friends to come together under one roof to share something that is really beautiful, joyful and personal.
Shane is a wonderful son- solid, focused, modest, hardworking, honest and very handsome (from his mother's genes!) who has given so much comfort and love to Cepta (his anchor throughout his life), his younger brother Daíre and to myself in more ways than he will ever ever know.
To welcome Michelle into our family was something special. Her family are the salt of the earth, oozing charm, music, sport and good humour. She and Shane are so in love, are two sides of the same coin and complement each other in every way. We wish them a long, happy, prosperous and fruitful relationship together.
There was so much about the wedding that reminded me of our own wedding of 40 years ago. The same mix of family and friends that formed the guest list, the physical setting of a hotel on a waterfront, the same food menu selection, the taking of photos by the guests (today it is the digital phone, in the 1980s it was the Kodak Instamatic camera), the groom and groomsmen wearing black, the bride white, and the best men being fine young outstanding lads with beards! Amazingly the music played in Glassan contained many of the classic tracks that were danced to in 1984!
Finally and most importantly the grooms on both occasions were marrying beautiful farmer’s daughters!!
But there were differences. The female element is rightly much more to the forefront. The first wedding speech was given by Bernie Quinn, mother of the bride. The celebrant was a woman and the marriage ceremony was secular with Celtic overtones, something that would have been unheard off when I was young. Whilst the majority of the guests were Catholic, the sins of the clergy has lost the church so much credibility amongst the population especially the youth. So not surprisingly Shane and Michelle decided what was once the traditional Irish religious wedding was not for them.
A quirky and welcome divergence from our time was the fact that the bedrooms contained turn-tables complete with records (‘retro’ is back!).
I was delegated and had the honour of giving the speech on behalf of Shane and clan. I tried to ensure that I gave respect to all present, to get the right balance between being witty and serious, to give due recognition to our national heritage including the Irish language whilst embracing the new frontiers of the global village. I hope that I succeeded to some degree.
Along with Cepta's niece Helena, her cousin and confidante Ciara (who started the wedding proceedings by lighting one of many candles) with her family, her close friend Catherine and husband Declan whom we known for 40 years, it was touching too to have her sisters Rena and Áine present as I remember them as graceful bridesmaids at our own wedding all those years ago.

Along with Cepta's niece Helena, her cousin and confidante Ciara (who started the wedding proceedings by lighting one of many candles) with her family, it was touching too to have her sisters Rena and Áine present as I remember them as graceful bridesmaids at our own wedding all those years ago.
Finally I want to thank my own siblings for being there- my dependable brother Michael and his two sons Pierce and Ethan from Carrickmacross; my gorgeous sister Teresa Cullinan, her hardworking husband Seamus Cullinan and their grown-up children Shauna, James and Erin from Derry; my super intelligent brother Peter and his daughter Chelsie from Oxford. It meant a lot too that my dearest aunts Frances Sheridan and Brigie with their husbands Brian and Seamus from Offaly were there also so that the connection for Shane to my dearly departed dad’s family would be kept alive and nurtured.